The longer you’re in a relationship, the harder it can be to keep things interesting. I’m always looking for fun ways to surprise my partner, to help keep the romance alive and to make him know he’s really important to me. If you’re in a relationship, it’s easy to get into a rut where you’re just living the weekly grind of work, home responsibilities, friends and family… It’s easy to let your partner fall to the bottom of the list. If you want to start making them feel like a priority, keep reading for the top 5 ways to surprise your boyfriend.
A Surprise Lunch
How often do you see your partner during the workweek during the day? If the answer is not much, this can be a really fun way to spice things up. Make reservations at their favourite restaurant and whisk them away for lunch! It can be a great way to get back some time from a workday that might otherwise be lost for you both just eating lunch in your break room. Often we think that the lunch break isn’t long enough to make any meaningful connections in, but you can make a lot happen in an hour. If you’re wondering how to turn a lunch break into a surprise for my boyfriend, well you can surprise him by being in his neighbourhood at lunch and making his lunch break more exciting. This is something that you should consider doing for special occasions such as anniversaries or birthdays, but also for those normal days that can disappearing into the routine of life.
If this is a department that your partner often leads, initiating things will be an exciting change of pace. You can even spice things up by trying a different location as well, such as your car to make things interesting. In relationships we often fall into pattens where someone usually takes the lead in this area and often the routine of sex is really similar with the same positions and so forth. Change this up and watch as your boyfriend falls even more in love with you and your body. Men love spontaneous women, especially in the bedroom. You can even learn a little more about preating here at the Love My Senses blog.
An Adventure Away
Getting away together can be such a fun way to spice things up. But why don’t you plan a surprise trip? A trip in where your boyfriend doesn’t know where you’re going or what you’re doing. You can take this to the next level by planning a surprise adventure to a country you’ve never been before! The suspense of finding out where you’re going at the airport can add a huge burst of romance and excitement to your relationship. Your boyfriend will be so impressed that you spent so much time and energy planning something for him. Be sure to choose activities or a location where you know he’ll be happy and have plenty to do.
Do Their Hobby
Nothing shows your boyfriend that you’re into him more than taking an interest in his hobbies and interests. It could be a fun idea to try doing a hobby together, such as boxing, running or cycling. Whatever he’s into, if he often asks you to go and you always say no, surprise him by saying yes or even suggesting it yourself. Doing fun things together, especially things outside of the normal routine, is a great way to increase your bond and to grow your relationship.
A Thoughtful Gift
Buying a thoughtful gift is such a wonderful way to show someone you’re thinking of them and caring for them. With now being Christmas season, it’s a time where most of us are trying to decide what Christmas gifts we’d like to give our boyfriends. I like to focus my efforts on gadgets. Most men really love gadgets and it can a great way to buy them something that they’ll regularly use. Whether it’s a smart watch, a new phone, even a new drone… there are so many fun options out there that you can consider. If your boyfriend has mentioned he wants to get himself something, but doesn’t have the funds yet or is waiting, this could be the perfect gift to get him for Christmas or just to show him how much you care!
There are so many different ways to surprise your boyfriend. I’m sure that adding in one of these five surprises will quickly show your boyfriend how much you care about him and help him to appreciate how generous you are. If you’re really stuck on how to surprise him, you can reach out to one of his good friends to ask for suggestions. Maybe he’s mentioned something he’s missing or wanting, and they could point you in the right direction.
It’s so important to make our loved ones feel special and I hope these tips inspire you!