Irrespective of whether you’re dating a Russian girl online or in real life, you may wonder which topics you can discuss with her and which ones you’d better leave alone. Men often ask what they are supposed to say at the beginning of a date, which questions are appropriate, and how to react if an awkward silence sets in. Since a man is an initiator of a conversation and the one who introduces new topics, you’ll find the following tips concerning the first date talks very useful.
Know what you should say for starters
Imagine that she showed up in the restaurant where you’d asked her. You helped her take off her coat, pulled out a chair for her to sit down, and now you’re both sitting at the table. Or another situation: it’s your first virtual date via video chat. What should you say? In both cases, just say that you are very happy to see her. Simple as it may seem, this phrase is a very nice way to start your date. If you can’t help but compliment her on her stunning looks, don’t restrain yourself. Telling a Russian woman some nice words about her appearance is a good way to express your appreciation. However, don’t use those generalized and trite phrases that she can hear daily from other men. Be more exact in your remarks. Point out a particular detail of her image that you like most of all. Another great conversation starter is a question about her day. What makes it particularly great is that it can reveal many other topics that you can discuss further. By asking her about how her day was, you’ll show your interest in her life and learn a lot of new facts about her as well. There is one more opening topic that will be always appropriate. Start telling her why you asked her to this particular restaurant. Perhaps it is its location or the interior or cuisine that influenced your choice. If your date takes places at some other venue, look around and find something to discuss a bit. Avoid talking about the people around because you may come across as nosy.
Ask the right questions
There are some universal topics that will be appropriate for any date with any girl. Here are some of them.
There are a lot of different topics that may appear as the conversation proceeds. Just be attentive and you’ll never run out of subjects for discussion.
If you fear that moment of an awkward silence at the end of your date when both of you don’t know what to say, there is a universal ending. Tell her that you had a good time with her, especially if it’s true.